A guardian is named in your will to take care of parenting your child in the case that there are no surviving parents. They would be the legal carer until your children are 18 years old. Many new parents write their will in order to name specific guardians for their children. This is to ensure that it’s not left up to the courts to decide.
Typically a child’s guardian takes over the traditional role of a parent and would be expected to care for a child in the same way. Some of these expectations include housing and educating a child until they reach adulthood.
The most common way to set legal guardians for your children is to write a will.
The answer to this question will be different for everyone, but it’s definitely important to talk with anyone you're considering as they'll need to know the responsibility that they'd be taking on.
Many people will choose other family members as guardians, or close friends that perhaps already have children.
Some common considerations are:
Whilst the chance of both parents dying is low, this is a very important decision that you need to consider and then formalise in a will.
Simply put, it can give you peace of mind. It’s important to know that your children will be cared for by someone that you would’ve chosen. By picking guardians, you'll know that your child is being brought up by someone familiar with them. If you don't choose, it'll be decided by the courts.
It’s useful to highlight here that if there's someone still alive who has parental responsibility then they'll take care of your child. Check Gov.uk to find out more about who has the legal rights and responsibility of a parent.
If a child’s parents have both died, a guardian is called upon to take care of them until they're an adult.
Updating your will to reflect any changes in your circumstance is just as important as writing a will in the first place. With our online will you can freely update when you need and get your new version in no time - without any additional upfront cost.
Whilst this sounds quite dramatic, dying without a will can create a lot of stress for your family. Unless you have a will stating your wishes, it's the courts who decide what happens to your children and your estate. This uncertainty can be stressful for children involved and can sometimes lead to them being placed in the care of someone you wouldn’t have chosen.
It's key to write your children into your will. If you die without a will your estate is divided up according to the laws of intestacy. For traditional families this can work well, but these laws rarely take into account unconventional family structures or cases with step-children.
There may be specific items you want to give to your children. Often this might be something you've inherited yourself, such as a tradition family heirloom. By writing a will you can make your wishes known and have peace of mind that they will be fulfilled.
Along with any specific gifts you'll also be able to leave messages for your children. You might like to explain why you've given them something or just write down a memory that you'd like them to think of you by.
Making a will also allows you to write any funeral wishes you might have down. After you've died a funeral is an important event for your family to grieve and remember you by. If you've inputted into the planning they can take solace in the fact that they're doing what you'd have wanted.
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